What if they know each other for like a year and her cousin and his brother are dating. They know each other and like each other like crazy. Is it cool for them to go out? Granted, engaging in sex is illegal, BUT hanging out and dating isn't. At this age the gap seems weird, but once you are older, it isn't so bad.
I married that 20 year old- now at 27, the gap isn't so bad. For all the people who think Age is a big thing,let me tell you it isn't I'm 20 and proudly dating a 15 year old that i love.
Wenot having sex and we are keeping it safe but people should not resort to names like Pedo. Putting a love age is wrong and shouldn't be done. PS: for your theorys' sake I hope you're still madly in love 3yrs later kkkkk.
If he's a player, that's not good because he obviously wants to have sex with her. I'm 15 and turning sixteen in 4 months and have plenty friends as old as In some states, like California for sure a minor can date someone maximum of 5 years older than them. But they can't have sex. I also believe that's wrong in this case because you said you friend is a BIG player. So he must be planning on having sex with her. I also just wanted to say and stand up for other 15 year olds.
Older people might think we're all immature and yeah I understand that because I know plenty of people my age who are immature. But it might not be awkward having a younger friend depending on who it is.
I am also attracted to an older guy right now. Most high school boys aren't mature enough for me. My older friends and I talk normally and it isn't awkward at all. We hang out all the time.
Sure I can't go to clubs with them or anything, or drink, drive yet, but if I could I would. And we'd probably have a kickass time still. Because they treat me like an adult and as an equal person. They're so comfortable around me, they even talk about sex in front of me. Sex jokes and all kinds of things. It doesn't bother me because I'm not clueless about it, I'm not saying I've had sex because I've never and don't plan on until I'm older.
It's just I think some 15 year olds are capable of hanging out with you without it being awkward. We can even have serious conversations with too. But since your friend is a BIG player, she doesn't see that, she's probably not that smart. I don't think it's too big of a difference. But since you friend seems to only want one thing. And if she isn't mature enough, then they shouldn't date. I know that a lot of older guys go after younger girls because they're "easier to impress.
Let's be real. God didn't give us eyes for nothing. So if she's looking like a cute, hot, pretty young thing, you can't blame him for being attracted right?
15 year old dating 19 year old?
Attraction starts with what you see too. You can even be attracted to someone and they could be like too old or too young for you. You seem very mature and considerate given that you have come on here to ask these. If you are serious about having a relationship, I think the best thing would be to be up front and meet with her parents and reassure them of your intentions.
Best of luck to you. In my honest opinion I wouldn't be happy for my 15 year old daughter to be going out with a 19 year old! While a 3. I have two girls and really wouldn't be happy if it was one of my girls. Sorry, just my opinion.
If my daughter was 19 and going out with a 22 year old I wouldn't have a problem with it, as they would both be adults!!!!
I also wouldn't like it. It is to do with the sex and alchol issue. Plus I think a 19yr old would have different interests to a 15yr old.
The 19yr old can go clubbing and I would be horrified to find out my 15yr old was doing any of those things. If you are genuine and have the girls best interests at heart why dont you remain friends at least until she is at least another year older.
There's a good chance, however, that your year-old will think she's ready to take on the world now. And she may insist she already knows everything. That know-it-all attitude with a hint of rebellion can be par for the course for year-olds. My year-old daughter has a boyfriend and she wants to spend time alone with him. Every chance they get, their faces are stuck together, and the other day I noticed a hickey under her collarbone. We thought you'd also like: Dating Advice for Teens: 6 Tips to Teach Respectful Dating Behavior. We require doors to be open in the family room (or. Nov 27, Over the weekend, during a heated argument with my year-old daughter, I found out that she and her boyfriend of a year have recently started having sex. I .
Her parents I feel would respect you more for that. Nina H Hi, I wouldn't be happy if my 14 year old daughter dated someone who was significantly older.
She is However, I did have a serious relationship when I was My best advice? Wait till she's 16 :nmswave: Hi, I wouldn't be happy if my 14 year old daughter dated someone who was significantly older. Wait till she's Deleted profile.
Again, I think it is more to do with sex and alcohol.
Just be safe Again, I think it is more to do with sex and alcohol. Just be safe. When I was 17 I started dating a guy who was 27, and to be honest at that age I thought I knew it all and that I was the dogs doodahs for dating a 'mature man' :lol: You seem like a very mature young man and I'm just wondering if the girl is as mature as you are?
If so, I really don't see the problem. When I was 17 I started dating a guy who was 27, and to be honest at that age I thought I knew it all and that I was the dogs doodahs for dating a 'mature man' You seem like a very mature young man and I'm just wondering if the girl is as mature as you are?
Esther K You sound like a very mature and responsible young man, and I'm sure your intentions are good, but I would certainly have reservations about a 15 year old daughter of mine dating a 19 year old. At 19, I would expect you to be a lot more wordly-wise than a 15 year old girl, and I would be worried about the whole sex thing, to be perfectly honest.
I appreciate that a lot of girls have under-age sex these days anyway, and there's nothing to say she wouldn't also do it with a boyfriend her own age, but I'd be worried she'd feel more pressured, simply because you are so much older. Would you be willing to wait until she's 16 before making the relationship sexual?
Have you met her parents yet? If not, perhaps this girl could arrange for you to meet them before you embark on a relationship with her. Once they've got to know you, and you've gained their trust, they may be happier about you asking her out. Good luck : Hi. Good luck.
My year-old son, a high school senior, is dating a year-old sophomore. This doesn't seem like a great idea to me, but I don't want to forbid it. Are there any ground rules I should set? Oct 10, My question involves criminal law for the state of: Florida I am a 15 year old girl and I'm in somewhat of a relationship with a 19 year old male. I'm not sure if we are legally allowed to date. We're basically like boyfriend a girlfriend, but we want to make it official. Jan 31, A parent worries about speaking honestly to her year-old daughter, who is dating a year-old man. (Grandfailure/Getty Images/iStockphoto) January 31, at AM EST. Q: My Author: Meghan Leahy.
Well firstly, I thank you all for responding to this thread in such a civil manner - more than I can say for the people over on another forum on which I asked this question.
For some reason, the majority of the users on the said other site were rather hostile towards me. I can completely understand where you are all coming from - If I were in your position, I would be most likely be thinking the exact same things! Mic66dch wrote: In my honest opinion I wouldn't be happy for my 15 year old daughter to be going out with a 19 year old!
Jan 19, Granted, engaging in sex is illegal, BUT hanging out and dating isn't. I was 15 and went out w/ a 20 year old, to school events like football games & stuff. At this age the gap seems weird, but once you are older, it isn't so bad. I married that 20 year old- now at 27, the gap isn't so bad. A year-old is an adolescent - no longer a child, but not yet an adult either. There are lots of physical changes, but it's also a time of big intellectual, social, and emotional development. Feb 22, No, it's not illegal to date a 19 year old guy. But it is illegal to have sex with a 19 year old guy. Not for you, but for him. He can be imprisoned for a number of years because of it. First off, let me explain that sex in a statute has a wider r.
Nina H 79 wrote: Hi, I wouldn't be happy if my 14 year old daughter dated someone who was significantly older.
Well I would let you date my daughter if I had one lol You sound very mature and not a complete sex driven nutter like a lot of lads your age :lol: For me, it would depend on the person she was going out with. Some lads you can just tell they are out for one thing only Others actually want to DATE a girl, and sex doesn't come in to it. Can I ask, when is she 16? I think it really depends on the people involved to be honest.
Good luck though, you sound like a lovely lad : Well I would let you date my daughter if I had one lol You sound very mature and not a complete sex driven nutter like a lot of lads your age For me, it would depend on the person she was going out with. Good luck though, you sound like a lovely lad. IMHO it depends on the 15 year old and the 19 year old!
My 14 year old Daughter Is Dating a 17 year old Guy
I dated someone 5 years older than me, and it didn't last long - he spent most of the time we WERE dating pointing out how young I was He was very emotionally immature. You seem very mature, and are simply looking for options. Your doing your best to consider all opinions Wishing you all the best!
My 15 year old daughter is dating a 19 year old
When I was 16 I went out with a guy who was Def be a good idea to meet the parents though :- x When I was 16 I went out with a guy who was Def be a good idea to meet the parents though x.
You sound very mature for a 19yr old though a bit too perfect compared to any 19yr old lads i know!! You're due to have another baby?
It is true that the majority of people around my age seem to enjojy such a lifestyle. Andrew B Sorry Ben but I think the parents will worry about the age difference because she is only 15 and therefore a child. As a father and knowing how sex mad I was at your age I would be thinking your intentions were to seduce my daughter and have you wicked way.
Whatever you might have in common with her father the fact you are older with lustful intent overrules anything in common you might have.
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In my honest opinion I wouldn't be happy for my 15 year old daughter to be going out with a 19 year old! While a years age gap isn't much at all as you reach adulthood, I find it too big a gap at this age.
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