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So simple yet so cute :blush:. Namjoon and as always, talked about this topic wisely. When the interviewer asked Namjoon about dating and marriage in general, he replied that it is an essential thing in life and all the boys will eventually get married but it is just too soon to talk about it for the moment.
In another interview, Namjoon mentioned that it would be nice of he founds a deep girl in her thoughts but funny at the same time. He then emphasized on the point of reading! He stated that every girl is beautiful in her own way but finding someone thst he could share with special moments is what he's looking for. When asked about thos thoughr in dating, V also said that it is not time to talk about dating.
Then he added, " but a girl with a sense of fashion. In another interview, Tae stated that dating a lovely, kind-hearted girl that loves animals, children and elders would be amazing. He also mentioned in many interviews, that as long as the girl has a good personality, he won't care about the looks and that in a relationship, we should fall in love with the inside personality and not the outside looks so kind and such a gentleman :wink:.
Jhope's point of view on dating and marriage was similar to Tae's. He answered the same as V's: "We don't have time for sleep so, why would we even think about dating?! In the future, he would be happy if he found someone that could give him her attention and he will will her all the love she needs. Jhope mentioned that having things in common or having the same interests is not that big of a deal. In many interviews, I found that Jungkook does not give his opinion about this dating and marriage thing.
Maybe because he's still young! But, in latest interviews and fansigns, he stated many times that he likes it when the girl is older than him. Regarding the dating, Jungkook said that that he said he is too young to date but if he does, he'd like to date a cute girl with a charming personality. He mentioned that he'd love to spend the time with a smart girl, get to know her better than if she was able to make him fall for her he would date her.
As the eldest in the group, Jin gets asked lot about marriage and dating life. He always answered that his carrier is more important. But, in many occasions, he stated his honest thoughts about love life. When asked about dating, Jin replayed that a feminine cute girl that could cook is what he's looking for. To him, dating and marriage doesn't differ that much because dating will lead to marriage and if the cute girl loves him as much as he does, he sees no reason why to not get married.
He loves an outgoing, soft, lovely yet matured girl. A girl that shares with him his sense of humor. All of their thoughts on marriage and dating is just so adorable!!! I'd say Suga and Jungkook suits me the most :smile:. EDIT: Omg thanks so much for my second feature guys!!! Cutie pie spends the day coughing and sneezing, blaming Yeo-reum for the cold he caught because he stole the covers. He ends up leaving work early, and reminds the nurses to move the refrigerated supplies because the electricity will be shut off for the night for repairs.
So she hauls the pot with her, and Aunt starts making her try things on for the nice dinner that Mom has planned for her and Ki-tae.
Meanwhile Mom calls Ki-tae and tells him about the dinner, and he convinces Jang-mi to just go along with it and make Mom buy her everything. Jang-mi tries to just go with the first dress so she can at least deliver the soup to Ki-tae, but Aunt makes her try every single thing in the store and haul the soup pot up and down the stairs, and then takes her to the salon where she makes them redo her hair and makeup about a thousand times.
Aunt waits for Jang-mi to fall asleep and steals her phone before sneaking out. Meanwhile Ki-tae arrives to dinner, and finds Se-ah waiting for him. In what universe is blackmailing your ex for his sperm a thing people do? Mom arrives first, and she and Se-ah sit there exchanging pleasantries while Ki-tae stands there in disbelief. He demands to know where Jang-mi is. Jang-mi wakes up at the clinic and wonders where everyone went. At eight, the power shuts off all at once, and Jang-mi stumbles her way to the door to call out for help.
She grows increasingly frightened and feels her way through the dark to look for a phone, and ends up spilling the pot of soup all over herself. Her panic starts to mount at being trapped all alone. Ki-tae tells him that Jang-mi is trapped inside, and together they pry the door open by force. They split up to search for her inside, and Ki-tae runs everywhere calling her name, sick with worry. Aaaaaaah, you let the other guy hug her!
You idiot. He lets Yeo-reum use the kitchen just this once, and pretends not to be lured by the smell of delicious chicken pasta. But once Jang-mi busts out the wine, the mood brightens. Ki-tae wakes up with a coughing fit and ambles to the fridge in the middle of the night. Suddenly the question rings in his ear-the one asked by Hoon-dong, his nurse, then Jang-mi- Are you okay?
Kyaaa, because you lurrrrve her. Quick, Ki-tae, do something about your feelings now, before you turn into Se-ah and start blackmailing exes to have their spawn so you can remain tied to them forever. And ever and ever. Please tell me that admitting the truth out loud means that Se-ah can stop creeping me out now. But we see with Mom and Se-ah that this self-preservation comes at a steep price mostly, sanity. Your email address will not be published. Oh,thank God refreshing has finally paid off.
I can finally go to bed happy at am. Damn you K dramas messing with my sleep pattern.
I honestly thought we were going to have a threesime when they were feeding each other at the end. Not gonna lie, I kinda sorta want all three of them to live together and have a happy little well-fed family.
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It's a win-win for her. YR is a great cook, n and sing to her. Gt BF material. KT needs to be loved, but he isn't gonna like it as a 3-some, is he? YR is like an adorable puppy who can cook and sing!
He's not substantial enough to be the sole boyfriend of Jang-mi, but after watching those three interact over dinner, I was like "this is the family that all three of these people desperately need. I think that the only way I'll be ok with YR continuing to take up so much screen time is if all three of them are together, drinking and eating and laughing. Ok maybe I'm the only one who doesn't mind the scenes with YR not just because he's so cute I swear!
Meanwhile, as was pointed out in the recap, KT and Crazpants SAalso may serve the same purpose - as both struggle to maintain their pride, SA has clearly gone off the deep-end for it, while IF KT manages to deal with it noticing it is the first step, as you said!
Mom serves as the illustration of the future for this way of living. And OMG a show where I actually sympathize with the mean cock-blocking mother-in-law!! Never thought I'd encounter that! In my group of friends, I think i'm the only one who is not bothered by YR. My friends are annoyed at him with so much passion, i'm scared that I might eventually hate him.
However, it didn't happen yet. I am still indifferent towards him and I enjoy his eye smiles. I don't mind YR that much either for the same reason as kepogee. Also is it just me or does anyone else here think that YR looks a bit like Rain the eyes and that sweet smile! I think that he is a really interesting character, actually. He is a fun mixture of looks, positive attitude, charming behaviors, good - for- nothingness and a tough background. I liked all the scenes with him and I actually thought he was way too forgiving.
I liked Yeo Reum's character from the beginning, actually. I'm extremely happy that Ki-Tae realizes his feelings first because I think that him caring for Jang Mi and dealing with it is a much bigger step for him towards change then it would be for Jang Mi. He's so determined to keep his fortress of solitude but admitting his feelings is already a large stride towards the right direction. This drama has been such a wonderful surprise and I'm so glad I was introduced to it because it's been a while since I've been so obsessed.
And in turn, Jang-mi will realize that just dating guy after guy is no guarantee she won't be alone. Real feelings and chemistry have to exist, and I don't believe she and Yeo-reum have that deep level of understanding that is necessary for them to keep going. As a matter of fact, I think that if she knew Ki-tae liked her, she would drop Yeo-reum in a heartbeat because of the connection and chemistry she has with Ki-tae.
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Ki-tae insists on never liking her, and maybe she's accepted that, so she has no qualms about being with Yeo-reum in the meantime. Wholeheartedly agree. If ki tae had step up back them it would of been gg. I want more scenes with him and jang mi but having yr there to initiate his feelings was good but I don't want yr always in the scene with them anymore I find myself wanted to ff all the scenes of them but I don't want to miss anything between ki tae and jangmi.
I think that's the general consensus with everyone on Yeo Reum haha! I think part of it is just due to the fact that Jinwoon a total cutie pie i love has VERY limited acting capabilities! I feel like if the role had been given to an actor who could give Yeo Reum more depth we may not dislike his scenes with Jang Mi as much.
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It might jus be the bad acting that is putting everyone off. The main guy is very poor at acting but the 2nd lead has come in and stolen a lot of the spotlight even the the otp was suppose to be the first guy.
I say hyun hee and YR are in the same acting category because they jus seem so boring but there for the pretty. Haha YR smiling face scares me. He smiles in every scene. When he is sad he smiles.
When he is yelled at he smiles. Is it part of the character because of the abandonment issues? Seriously, Show, can we clock in some more alone time for our couple please?
I'm pretty sure she had more alone time with YR in this episode, but I'm letting it slide because at least it got KT all worked up. YM spend too much time with YR already, it is not only irritating, it is getting boring as well! How many episodes we will see her kissing KT in the beginning and then hugging YR in the end. Even YM should realize there is something wrong with it.
Time to come up with something fresh. I also cannot bear to look on YR smiling face!! I am however still very curious as to how this will all play out. By the time Jang Mi falls for Ki Tae which I assume is the end game, she would have gone out with all 3 guys. Hmmmmmm Another thing, maybe cos it's a pet peeve of mine, Hated the fact that they didn't clean up after they ate.
I mean, it's not even their house. That's just bad manners. I wonder, though, if they might have been so tired after the scare she had and all the wine they drank? What bothered me most was how much of the pasta they left; Weren't they eating and drinking for a long time? I was just thinking that's not like JM and YR to let food go to waste.
They were eating up a storm. Unless YR made more batches. What a lovely episode. Yeon Woo-jin's expressions were spot on haha! It was definitely his episode to shine. All of his reactions were awesome :. I especially loved that moment when he was getting all bent out of shape over the massage chair, and she just pinches his sleeve and asks if he's okay, and then he just gets this look on this face as if he's been completely disarmed by her.
She just has this way of getting past his defenses now and I love that. She doesn't try to control his life, but she doesn't leave him alone either and I love that.
Also the other big moment of the episode was definitely him exclaiming that she can't be left alone! I love this statement because it sets us up for Ki-tae's biggest conflict: Will he choose to live his life alone like he's always wanted or will he make sure that the person he cares about the most never has to be left alone again?
Haha, the question you posed about Ki-tae's conflict makes it sound like the most epic thing in the world. I love it. Great comments at the end on Ki-tae.
I also like that he's the one who's fallen first, although I don't know how much more patient I can be with Jang-mi and Yeo-reum's relationship. I think it's great that she has another suitor because it's such a fantastic comedic situation, but I just don't get nor like Yeo-reum. First he was all mysterious and now he's a goofball? That transition was lost on me if there even was one. He just makes me uncomfortable for some reason. Maybe it's because the drama he should've been in is Pasta.
Just joking! But seriously, I think I''ll be okay if we don't have a pasta-making scene each week. Also, I loved Ki-tae's snide remark about how people only make pasta so that they can look good in front of others! Now that Ki-tae's hooked, I'm waiting for Jang-mi to realize her feelings too. And I hope his mom comes around. I really want to like her, and I hope the drama doesn't ruin her potential relationship with Jang-mi.
I agree with YR's transition, he went from charming and mysterious waiter to adorable and pitiful puppy running around I actually want to see more of HD. It would be funny if he's the one that pulls JM and KT together. Totally agree I find him YR annoying seriously every single time he smiles I smile I need some help?
I jus don't get exactly way it is he suppose to do for the show other then being pitied and homeless. The guys 28 years old and a part timer. His scene are more sad and unreal then anyone else.
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He actually has some charm and character to him. I don't quite get what his role is either, aside from being some kind of lost wannabe chef. What has he been doing for 28 years that the best he can do is a part time kitchen gofer. That's what Let's Eat is for.
And Ki-tae is our lead, but we don't see him performing plastic surgery every week! Sometimes I forget he even has a job. I actually like the 3rd lead from let's eat.
In this show she jus seems erratic immature. If YR jus had more character or if the guy can act his role I probably feel different. I'm glad i'm not the only one who doesn't like YR. For some reason his character just rubs me the wrong way and I can't really fathom what Jang-mi sees in him besides the superficial stuff. He just seems so blah and without much substance despite his whole "I was abandoned as a child" sob story. I think the very points that you dislike about YR is exactly what the writers want you to pick up on.
They want you to see the contrast between a superficial dating relationship compared to a real relationship that would lead to marriage.
And that comparison highlights the difference of depth between the two clearly. JM's interaction with YR is very superfically based where her interaction with KT is much deeper and emotionally moving. The true power of that really shined at the end of the last episode with that kiss. She had a choice of either nurturing her relationship with YR or KT. But in the end she chose KT, why? I actually predict that JM is going to get married to KT eventually She will be stuck in a situation where she could either go on with "protecting" KT or let go and move on with YR, but will push forward with KT in disregard of YR because of her emotional connection and bond with him.
That wasn't how I read it at all - what I saw was her responding to her own baggage and rescuing someone in pain which is how she gets taken advantage of. You know, for someone who keeps telling her not to get taken advantage of, Ki Tae takes advantage of her all the time. She's not letting herself get taken advantage of. She's actively making a choice to help someone that she's come to care about.
Love this comment. Who hasn't been infatuated with someone who is great on paper but who ultimately we don't really connect with deeply? What exactly makes for a lasting, healthy, loving, supportive long-haul relationship? This show is engaging in those questions on a much deeper level than we normally see in kdramaland, from its leads to its side characters. Both sets of parents represent opposite extremes neither of which are particularly healthy or loving : Ki-tae's parents have a relationship that is literally all about keeping up appearances.
They are so emotionally and physically estranged from each other that they hardly even talk to each other, let alone fight with each other. They are a prime example of all surface, no substance.
Jang-mi's parents, on the other hand, are so wrapped up in their own emotions that they drive each other crazy and can't talk to each other without wanting to rip each other's throats out. They are an example of extreme emotional investment without an ounce of love. In order to root for their relationship, we need to see whether Jang-mi and Ki-tae are able to avoid these pitfalls.
They are building a relationship on a foundation of knowing each other to the bone-and if they grow to love each other through this knowing, then they will truly have something special. But in order for both to appreciate their relationship together, they need to learn to be vulnerable. Ki-tae has avoided being vulnerable with anyone because he was taught from a young age that doing so is the only way to be safe and happy.
That's what is so heartbreaking about his attachment to his apartment. When he was a child, being alone truly was the only way he could be remotely happy. Now that he is older, the coping mechanisms that got him through his childhood are no longer working for him.
Jang-mi enjoys her superficial relationship with YR because it is safe. She gets to spend time with a nice guy and doesn't have to worry about him leaving her because honestly, she is not very emotionally invested in him.
I think that's how she so easily bounced back from discovering the deal between YR and Se-ah. Yes, she was sad and felt used, but it wasn't debilitating. Ki-tae, on the other hand, gets under her skin. She worries about him, she feels the need to protect him, but she also respects him. She's seen him at his worst and-perhaps even more terrifying, he's seen her at her worst. He truly has the potential to hurt her, so of course she is a little gun shy after getting hurt so royally in her last relationship.
Not the word I'd use. Dating one of those damaged guys is anything but safe and Yeo Reum seems very damaged. I mean "safe" in the sense that her heart isn't on the line as much as it would be with Ki-tae-or as much as it was with Hoon-dong, even.
Yes, Yeo-reum seems damaged, but you can't get hurt if you're not emotionally invested, and I get the sense that Jang-mi is not incredibly emotionally invested in YR.
That may be in large part because he seems pretty guarded and has not allowed himself to become vulnerable with Jang-mi. It may also be because she got to know him as a playboy and is herself a bit guarded around him. Whatever the reason, I think that carrying on a superficial relationship with someone regardless of how trustworthy they are often feels "safer" to those who've been hurt than being in a relationship that demands greater vulnerability.
It can feel like here's more risk involved in a more substantial relationship, because the degree to which you open your heart is the degree to which you can be hurt. It's hard to say with his character because he seems like a bit of a cipher, but I don't think I know enough about YR to say whether he was attracted to JM because he genuinely likes her personality, or if he's intrigued by her explicitly because of all the drama surrounding her.
His particular brand of "damaged" seems to come with a tendency to keep people at arm's length. He doesn't strike me as someone who particularly wants to be known on a deeper level. Ki-tae has a similar tendency to put up walls, but seems completely uninterested in being coy or manipulative about it.
It's possible that Yeo-reum is keeping Jang-mi at a distance because he's worried about her relationship with Ki-tae, but I think it is also possible that her unavailability is exactly what attracted him to her in the first place. You're right! His character is completely dissolving itself from what I initially thougt. I wanna go in se ha past a bit more to see how u turn out the way she did but it seems like yr and jang mi chose different paths after being abandon.
I think that was a reference to the classic French film, Jules and Jim, in which two men are madly in love with the same woman-and form a threesome, of sorts. Sometimes it means one person has relations with the two others separately, but it could also mean they have a threesome. A Korean short film starring our very own Yeon Woo Jin as a matter of fact. It always makes me smile and breaks my heart. This drama is just getting better and better.
There is a spin to it that makes it realistic. YWJ got some really good telling eyes! Within a split second; you can see the shift of emotions - frustration and confusion to googly and loving. I'd love to have him stare at me like that, tee hee. It's so enjoyable to see how KT is slowly opening up to his surroundings. I loved that moment when a he stares as her when she walked in after his video game session and b when he realized that he is NOT okay with JM dating YR, he finally admitting to himself that he has feelings for her!
YR is quite an adorable puppy in this episode. Yeon Woo-jin is wonderful here. I love those actors who didn't start out right away as leading men, who built upon role after role, no matter how small, and then just blow you away with their range and talent. A part of the reason why I adore this show so much is because I've been watching and enjoying both Yeon Woo-jin and Han Groo over the last few years, and here they finally get to be the stars of their own show and a fantastic show at that!
But here he's even better because I can literally see every little reaction to every little thing play out on his face and it is fantastic. I've become very very fond of his character. Thanks for the fast recap ; I am in love with this drama. JM and KT are sooo cute. Now that he realize his feelings, I cant wait for his future actions. Even Know YR was a little bit annoying, his presence was really important for KT to realize his true feelings.
The only character that I totally dislike is KT's mom. I felt bad for her when I saw that her husband was a cheater. But in today's ep I kind of felt that she doesnt care for KT.
She only wants him to marry his ex because of her father's influence. I think Ki-tae's mom's action has a lot to do with her husband's influence as well. She must feel indebted to the family to a put up with his cheating ways and b try to rearrange a meeting with Se-ah when it's clear that she does like Jang-mi. I think she's just upset that it's all a scheme and not the real deal.
I'm basing this all on last week's episodes. I hope she grows a spine and divorces her husband at the end of this drama. She has to change! I feel really bad for her because of the husband. However that doesn't mean she can do whatever she wants, locking JM, setting up a meeting without KT knowing, trying to separate her son from "the person he likes". I believe one of the reasons why KT left home was due to his mom behavior since he was child.
We don't know how long his father has an affair, is distant from his wife. So right now I can't blame only her for this situation. Maybe she is just cold outside to kind of block her from being hurt however again she is super wrong when it comes do JM - KT.
I am still waiting for further ep tho, since we are passing the half mark, I believe there is a lot more to find out about the family relationship. I'm glad you brought up KT's mom. The thing that puzzles me the most in this ep is the action she takes in calling S and arranging a meal w her and her dad, after hearing her husband's comment on her dad's influence w his boss. Give me a break!
They are not doing poorly, so why would they want to sell their son to the highest bidder? Given how her husband has been treating her, why the hell would she even lift a finger to help him advance his career? But then I don't have that kind of crazy ambition to get ahead at all cost or deviousness, so I'm never going to understand.
But I despise his parents for this! With or without further advancement, what's wrong with their entire family's current already-comfortable financial position? Isn't Gi Tae's dad a jerk? Anyone noticed how he insisted Se Ah and Gi Tae should become a couple and that Jang Mi should break up with Gi Tae, but he didn't want to be the bad guy to do anything about it?
Poor wife, she really is a pushover where he's concerned. She agreed to be the bad guy, but I guess it's also because it aligns with her own feelings and plans. Poor Jang mi, she should have known better than to bait a sleeping tiger. She dished it out to Gi Tae's mom and Se Ah, but she wasn't ready for the payback which turned out to be nastier than she could ever have anticipated.
What a bunch of manipulative people we have in this show: Gi Tae's dad whose turning out to be worse than his wifeGi Tae's mom, his dad's mistress, Se Ah master manipulatorHyun Hee and even Gi Tae himself started off by being one. Thankfully he's seeing the error of his ways and is beginning to change Thank you for the fast recap loved it you cover it all and I agree with your insights.
I'm loving this drama. Se-Ah is cray cray. Oh she is cray cray alright! What did she do? She bought the apt next door and promptly brought in workmen to knock down the walls, Without consulting w him. I'd be very very scared to have anything to do w such a person, much less be married to her. Good for him that he found out that's the way she is B4 the wedding rather than after.
It actually confuses me a lot because it just doesn't seem to fit the tone of the rest of the drama, which is usually careful to give the characters realistic emotions and motivations and to twist drama tropes. Only Se-Ah is completely evil-crazy- and not even comically or ironically. I don't understand her at all and I have no clue where her character will end up.
Maybe it's like what GF said about her scheme to have his kid. Her aim is to find ways to keep him in her life permanently. So maybe in her crazy logic, she thought that if she merged the apartments it'd keep him attached to her regardless of how the marriage was working out?
Se Ah wants to be the last one standing for GT's girl friends. Since she was kicked to the curb three years ago after she acted psycho by trying to knock down his apt. GT is not into you. He's already made the comment that Se Ah is too much like his mom.
Why doesn't she go to a sperm bank if she wants a baby? I'm glad GT finally dawns on him that he likes JM no matter how much he had denied it beforehand.
Love the scene where JM is sleeping head to head with YR. GT probably wished it was him instead with JM! The realization that Ki-tae might actually like Jang mi is great and shows she had worn him down enough that he would care again.
Honestly I am personally conflicted about whether Jang mi should go to Ki-tae because she likes another. I am not sure what she gets out of this deal as it seems always for Ki-tae.
It was initially to make Hoon dong jealous but that seems complete now. I guess that's her get personality of helping others out over her own happiness. I see a lot of people shipping our lead couple together, but I feel it's wrong to ship our lead couple simply because they ARE the lead.
Don't get me wrong, I do think that Gi Tae and Jang mi would have explosive chemistry, but at this stage in his development, Gi Tae is still very immature, very wrapped up in his own needs and feelings. He needs to grow to a point where he puts Jang mi's needs above his own. Right now it's all about him, the relationship he has with Jang mi is one in which Jang mi gives, and he takes. This is by no means healthy. The give and take of their relationship has to be mutual and reciprocal so they both gain something from it, then I would be happy that Jang mi and Gi Tae are together.
I see them progressing to that point, when Gi Tae fully acknowledges to himself that he is head over heels in love with her. Watching that progression is exciting. For now, Yeo Reum is meeting Jang mi's needs in a relationship. I don't see him as a bad guy, because he made a few mistakes along the way, I guess we could all learn from Jang mi's forgiving heart and cut him some slack. Although, with a part time job and no housing he is by no means ready to settle down.
Jul 26, Marriage Not Dating: Episode 7 by girlfriday. There are so many love geometries in this drama that it's a wonder how anyone remains friends. And yet, the unlikeliest of bromances emerges in this episode, because things weren't complicated enough for the heroine who's juggling an ex, a fake fiance, and a noona-killer who all work in the same building-she has to get them to play nice /5. Definitely, they are all attractive individuals in their primes, it would be quite weird if they weren't, I mean jin is almost 30, come on. Besides BTS doesn't have a no dating rule like other idols. Big hit also seem to have some kind of agreemen. When asked about dating, Jin replayed that a feminine cute girl that could cook is what he's looking for. To him, dating and marriage doesn't differ that much because dating will lead to marriage and if the cute girl loves him as much as he does, he sees no reason why to not get married. He loves an outgoing, soft, lovely yet matured girl.
As a previous commenter observed, ALL relationships are important, not just the one that leads to the altar, and I would advise Jangmi to go for it. All experiences make us wiser and add to our growth and maturity. I don't ship Gi-Tae and Jang Mi simply because they are the lead couple, but because they have good chemistry together.
I agree completely that the relationship the way it stands now is completely unhealthy, but at the same time, there is room for growth as both learn to change each other for the better. Jang-Mi become stronger and Gi- Tae learns to be less selfish.
My problem with Yeo-rum comes in his shadiness. I cannot get genuine feelings from him. I am not sure if it is due to the actor's inexperience, but nothing about him feels real to me. He smiles, he smiles, and he smiles some more. It is a mask that does not let me know a thing about him, and I cannot get on a ship for a couple where I don't know what he wants. Does Jang-Mi like him or does she like the idea of him?
The guy who says everything she wants to hear and does everything she wants. Looking at the way he interacted with women throughout the past few episodes, he is accustomed to catering to what women want, so again that "fakeness" comes across to me.
I acknowledge that he does perhaps seem to genuinely like Jang- Mi, but it's again his mask that doesn't let me climb onboard his support vessel. This is one time I just don't have second lead syndrome. I know there's something wrong with Ki tae's dad after he checked out Jang mi's legs in eps No wonder Ki tae prefer to be alone, just see his parents. I love to see Ki tae's change bit by bit. That guy doesn't even have friends I mean he only hung out with Hoon dong who's supposed to be his friend once in all 7 episodesit's just so touching to see he's having fun with companies in his apartment.
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YWJ's face is so spot on, you can see Ki tae's been lonely all this time and realize it's better to have companies. Anyway I'm looking forward to see what will Ki tae do after realized his feelings. If Yeo rum is out the picture after this episode I will be happier. Loved this episode, so much good stuff happening and I can't get over the OST and sound effects, so on point and perfect!
I think you are all crazy - between the guy who yells at me when I'm upset and it not my fault AND the guy who hugs me and cooks for me The natural thing to do would be to scoop in and just hug her, comfort her and wipe away her tears. No, just no. I'm thinking that KT actually has a lot to work thru and to learn when it comes to love, coming fr that family he has. His dad is one shitty bastard, and his mom is rather dysfunctional as a person, and a mom. I feel sorry for him, and am happy that he is opening up under JM's influence.
I disagree- I think it shows he has some genuinely deep emotions for her. Everyone's experienced being extremely worried about a loved one and then getting mad at them for making you panic- like when parents yell at their children for getting lost in a public place.
If you don't care about someone, you don't fear for them, get annoyed by them, or get angry at them.
It's just like when Jang-Mi went crazy on Hoon-dong at the beginning. Ki-Tae has been purposefully holding himself aloof from people precisely because actually caring hurts and gets really complicated. The fact that he couldn't keep his "cool" a key word for the drama and act like a perfect gentleman in that emergency situation proves that his walls have finally been breached and he now has emotions for Jang-Mi that he can't hide or control.
I think this was the whole point of the episode and a really important theme of the drama as a whole: Real love isn't "cool" keeping up appearances and protecting everyone's face but instead is willing to throwaway pride and be completely vulnerable, honest, and abandoned, even if that means experiencing pain and embarrassment. It wasn't. The point is that he was so upset and concerned that his emotions over-rided doing the "right" thing. He is just waking up to his feelings and so all that bottled up emotion is spilling out in the wrong ways.
I understand very well his yelling. I think we all do. But wouldn't it be nice if he could suppress his worry-induced yelling long enough to just hug her first, is all I'm saying. Yelling releases the worry-generated tension for him. Hugging comforts here. Therein lies the difference. But yelling is more in line with the person that Gong Gi Tae is at this point in the story.
Hugging and comforting is only the natural thing to do if that's the kind of person you are. It would be nice if he did the whole hugging and comforting thing, sure, but it wouldn't be true to his character. Seriously, the girl is a sobbing mess and he knows why but he yells at her. I love GiTae but damn he really needs to learn some people skills.
I put myself in her shoes, I wouldn't like the guy who is only capable of yelling at me when I'm hurt. That's the person he is at the moment; poor guy has a lot to learn. I pick the guy I have a stronger connection with, and I honestly don't feel like her and Yeo-reum have a strong connection at all, especially not compared to our two leads. I think he cares about her more than we think. He is always trying to protect her Pretty boy is really fun to look at and he's so sweet I look at it as between the guy who was paid to go out with me and lied about it or the guy who tells me the truth no matter how much it hurts.
But honestly, however we look at it, both guys got flaws, and ultimately it's not about who's the better person for Jang-mi. It's not about picking someone. It's about how you feel. That's why in k-dramas, the second lead always gets kicked to the curb even if he is nicer.