Whats your opinion on that sort of thing? I don't have one, just wondering on your guys'. Yes there is a reason I'm posting this thread. Its happened before alot at my school Anyone care to explain the average age for these people? No way, man. You can go to prison for that.
well i can see why there'd be a poblm i am a junior and i know if i was the parent of a freshman girl who just finished 8th grade i wouldnt want her dating some of . No. A junior would be years old. A freshman is most likely A year-old dating a year-old, no one bats an eye. My step-dad is over 10 years my mom's senior. At the end of the day, if both of you are similar in terms of physical an. Is this uncommon? (similar to freshman guy dating junior girl) Cause that sophomore guy is me and I like this girl who's a senior. Will she find it awkward being in a relationship with me? For the girls on here, how do you feel about dating a guy in college 2 years younger than you?
And i am a junior now and i know way more osphmores then freshman who i barely know any. Why not indeed. I did it. I never dated anyone my grade or lower. Not that I planned it - but thats just how it is. I find freshman girls annoying, but then again I'm a senior.
If you managed to find one you like, go for it I suppose. My 19yo friend is dating a girl who is 16, so go for it. Like, one girl thought this guy was 21 and liked him, but then when she found out he was 19 she didn't like him anymore.
Same guy, am I right? And no, the guy wasn't me. But I hooked up with the girl when she met me and found out I was Lessons: 1.
Girls are F'ing arbitrary on their standards sometimes so go for it, if she doesn't like you, move on quickly to the next one. As a guy, each new year you survive and age or appearwomen will find you more attractive - regardless if you actually matured at all, or improved in any way whatsoever.
Yay for us! Not awkward just undesirable. I would prefer not to. Not a senior yet but I wouldn't even want to date a senior if I was a sophomore. They are leaving, maybe even leaving the country, very most likely the state, to go off and to do really important things that you can't really be apart of.
That just depresses me that in a few months they'll be gone. I wouldn't put myself in that position. It can happen, and it's not at all uncommon.
It's just that I personally wouldn't feel right dating a guy younger or shorter or thinner than me. A lot of people dont see relationships that way and I'm fine with it. If both you and her dont have a problem with it, then i say go for it! I'm not saying I want tall old fat guys, just to clarify.
Honestly though. S0ad replies 16 threads Member.
I like older guys so probably would avoid the younger ones. My bf just graduated and I'm junior. I was a freshman and he was a junior when we met, so I don't think its impossible, just think its more common for guys to date younger girls.
It's more of the women than the men that drives the equation here. In college, pretty much the peak of male sexual drive, we'll stick ourselves into anything that'll let us pretty much well, usually something that looks decent and is under lbs. Even a girl who is 22 is still young and good-looking.
The reason guys might go after younger girls is because 1. They defer more to your decisions usually which may be a plus to some guys.
It's mostly because girls like older guys. I would not be surprised if it was a status thing partially as well for a girl to be with an older guy.
Lethal Fairy 70 replies 3 threads Junior Member. They're easy to manipulate and force into sexual activities they are not interested in or read to engage in. They'll do what the older guy wants because they feel so special about receiving an older guy's attention and wisdom.
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Mar 28, I am a freshman girl dating a senior guy. I have had experience with a guy from 9th, 10th, 11th, and now 12th and it seems to be that the juniors are normally the ones worse for freshman girls. Just talk to your daughter make sure she knows what it is that is concerning you so much but don't try to push him out of her life, more than likely she. I met my fiance when I was a junior and she was a freshman. Not a big deal. level 1. DrunkVinnie. Nuclear Engineering - Georgia Tech. I'm a freshman and dating a senior and no one thinks it's weird (I don't think lol) level 1. it feels weird. he asked me to be his friend as well after the semester ended, so i really don't know how to. [Relationship] is it bad to date a freshman as a junior? relationship. Close. Archived [Relationship] is it bad to date a freshman as a junior? relationship. I'm a guy if that makes a difference. Edit: Thanks for the response. A friend of mine told me he's setting me up with her because he feels bad she has a crush on him (he has a.
My mom had issues with it at first with the whole age thing, but once she got to know him she was okay with it. It took a little while, but now she views him as her second son and we plan on getting married after we both graduate college.
Looking back, I now understand that my mom was mostly afraid of me growing up and me dating someone so much older just made her feel like I was growing up way too fast. Your daughter is going to have to make decisions on her own; ones you don't agree with.
The best you can do is talk to her, tell her your concerns, and be there for her if her decisions backfire. Dont do anything. Tell her how you feel about it and what your concerns are. You cannot make this decision for her, she will just rebel against you and continue to see him. Talk to her like you would one of your friends in this situation. My parents told me that I couldnt date a guy that was older than me and I continued to see him behind their backs. Get to know him and figure out their feelings for each other.
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My mom was uncomfortable with my boyfriend who is 4 years older. My mom saw that he cares for me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me. You'll be able to tell how he feels for her.
As a freshman in Highschool, I did the same thing. Although it didnt work out my relationship lasted three years. Really you just need to talk to her, but be positive when you do while also letting her know you are uncomfortable with this situation. If you forbid her to see him, she may go behind your back and do it anyway.
The best thing to do is show you support her but also are just worried. It would also be a good idea to meet him, just to make sure he is a responsible young man. Im 16 and as a sophmores point of view, I would want my mom to show me that she is gaining trust in me and I would want to see that my mom can be really open with me about it.
As long as you show her you care :. I'm the oldest of 4 girls Be open and honest with her.
Apr 26, This is a story about my experience dating a senior as a freshman and how that relationship played out LOL. What is it about "bad boys" . Sep 09, Honestly, I'm a sophomore, i've dated a senor. i've dated a junior. i've dated sophomores and freshmen. I guess it all depends on if the junior you're interested in is a male or a female and if you're a male or female (not knowing either or for both you and the junior). its not weird, Just take him or her to the side and ask her/him. don't ask around a group of his/her . [Discussion] Is a junior dating a freshman weird? discussion I've never dated someone younger than me, and I may be flirting with a girl right now and it's going in a reasonable direction ;).
I like the inviting him over for dinner idea, get to know him. Talk with your daughter and set boundaries together. The more you try and control the more they'll push the boundaries. Thank gosh I have boy!! Why is she dating at 14 years old?
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She is too young to be dating anyone. You are just asking for trouble. There are 9 year olds dating today. They have to learn from their experiences. Okay as a senior in highschool, we would consider the guy in the equation to basically be a pedophile. Its gross. Senior boys aren't so good for naive young freshman girls. I'd say to cut it off.
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Your daughter will be upset but trust me, you'll be thanked for it later. I am a freshman girl dating a senior guy. I have had experience with a guy from 9th, 10th, 11th, and now 12th and it seems to be that the juniors are normally the ones worse for freshman girls. Just talk to your daughter make sure she knows what it is that is concerning you so much but don't try to push him out of her life, more than likely she already knows she may only have her freshman year with him.
Their will be peer pressure on both sides so she doesn't need the stress of her parents not liking him to add on to it. Be as open to the subject as you can for then she may feel like you understand or will at least let her try to handle herself to a point.
The best thing you can do in this situation is show support.