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You may not have set out to fall in love with a married man, but there are times in life when even the most intelligent women find their emotions getting the better of them and they fall into situations that leave them feeling alone, embarrassed and isolated. Loving and dating a married man can be extremely painful and seldom works out well in the long run. The ups can leave you over the moon with a great feeling of love and comfort and the downs can be all consuming, leaving one bitter and rejected. But this article is not intended to judge anyone or admonish women to "just dump him! This article will openly and honestly describe what the typical experiences and outcomes are in these relationships so that you may be more prepared, educated, and informed about what you should expect, and how to handle it. How many men do you know who are ruining their lives because of a woman? Now, how many women do you know who have sacrificed all for a man?

They said that he've always been like that to other females or males behind his wife for many years.

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I wasn't the first person who he played behind his wife. I found out that there's a few people were waiting for him, because he told them lie that he's going to divorce her.

I know the lady, I never met her, but my married man went to her and told her to block me via facebook which is fine. He also admitted me that she was waiting over 4 years on him I thought he solved everything and closed the closure so he can be with me, but I was wrong. In the end, I decided to close between us and told him I can not be able to keep seeing him. I still love him, but it isn't same. I am tired of being side, tired of living lie when nobody knows that I'm seeing him, and cannot just waiting for him all the time.

Like holidays Thanksgiving, Christmas he tend to spend with his family like nothing has happened. It sucks, but I am glad it's over now. When I went through old pictures of us, I don't think he's that cute or handsome anymore. I see the real colors and happy that I got out before too late. He even admitted that he's always looking for sex when I didn't give him for a while. That is not loyal guy.

I can find someone who's single and would be loyal. I can understand that having intercourse is a plus, but I want a real thing the relationship that everybody know, instead living in the lie with a married man.

Trust me on this, I know it is frigging hard but in the long run, you'll be glad you did it. Now I've been gone out with my friends, and went out on date with some guys. I love my current life. I'm good! Dating a Married man was one of my lesson experience, and I know that I'll never want to date other Married man ever again. Don't do it. Just don't. I'm 5 years in and cry almost every day.

I'm too sucked in to leave. The jealously is unbearable and always second guessing how he feels about me. It hurts so bad. Tired of crumbs. I deserve the entire loaf. I have been seeing this seeing this man, am 29 and he is 40, he is married with 2kids, his wife is in Eastern Africa with his kids he visit them Every after two months, he is so nice to me and claime to love me so much but have no plans of divorce and he love his wife.

Any advices for me? I have the same situation with Darleen I'm in a relationship with a married man for almost 2 years and he even hurting me for several times and he even abort my baby without a permission. In Taiwan it was legal to do it. He is 43 and I'm 23 years old. He always lying to me and I know he even slept with his wife even though he always denying it. How I wish I can let go of this kind of situation.

May God guide me for everything and give me strength to face it. There's this married man that has been asking me out for the past 5 months now but I keep turning him down because I never planned to date a married man in my life but he is a good and nice man and he can give any time i asked him for something he doesn't hesitate I'm confused i don't know what to do because I have a boyfriend already.

Am worried and asking myself questions because i love this guy though i came to know that he was married and when i asked him,he said they separated but had a son with her.

He always pursue me when i decide to let go of the relationship out of the arguments we always have. I been with him 10 months Since last year Aug 18 and I found out he married on March I didn't know he had a gf and now she become his wife. He never invited me to his place, reason - he has a housemate and he told me he will ask him to move then I could go his place.

I saw a woman drove home and went into his house. I knocked the door I love him not because of he is a director, money, position. I love him, day by day, month by month Love is blind He destroy me Married man is scary I though he doesn't has love and I gave to him I don't even has a choice or right to choose to be a 3rd party I been with him 3 years he keeps promising me a future but as time goes on he got married to her had a baby and still says he loves me and wants me I been sleeping alone for 3 years how is this love I feel in love with a married man why he was not married when I got with him how do men love a women and make them sleep alone he takes care of me but I am hurting always thinking he messing with her or is he telling the truth he says he sleeps on the couch he there for the kids now I am on birth control and she has the baby his promises to me he gave her this is not his first time doing this to her he had a kid with someone else and they are still together.

I feel in love with a married man in We never did anything about it - his feelings for me were the same. I moved out of town because I didn't want to have any part of it but was crushed. He emailed me that he left his wife and said his marriage had been strained for years. Months later when I got off my work assignment overseas I came back to be with him. My friends all told me it would be a disaster. It has been 7 years now that we have been married and we are more in love with each other than when we first met.

I am the luckiest woman on the planet. Some things were meant to be. We met 6years ago while traveling, he jumped in to protect me in one uncomfortable situation.

He then invited to travel with them, I refused as I was afraid of him traumas from my past, I never said that to him then or after We connected on social media, almost no contact, living in different parts of world. I'm a rape and almost every other kind abuse, long-term survivor. He doesn't know anything of that. Then in few months I travel to another country to meet him this was 2.

They all like me. After couple of months I travel to meet him 4. He never initiated anything physical again after 3. He wants to be with me, isn't after sex. When they came I wrote him in sense to not ignore me or I cut him off forever and he answered, didn't want to lose me. I hug him, we should kiss, I run away.

He was never rude. In this field I'm a ruin, handicapped. Years ago I decided to live in complete celibacy forever. After that last time 5months ago I understood I really can't live like that anymore, hurting someone I love. A week ago by complete chance I found out on social media that he got married this May, they are about 10years together already, no kids, engagement last May we met 2times after it. Now we had talked just 2days before, he was the same happy to see me in one week again, as usual.

I asked him about, he confirmed. And for 1. I wrote that I wish him only Happiness in life, and to not hug other women as if he'd want to be with them. No answer. We never even kissed, but he understood when we met 2.

My friend then wrote him message if he understands what damage he did to me with his little game. I still can't get over him. I don't want to be used for sex only then thrown away, it happened not once in past.

I don't want sex with him as long as he is married. I don't want to hurt anyone, especially not me. I don't wish anything bad to his family, they are good people and we his brother, some very close friends are kind of friends.

Last time we met I said to him that in this year for few months I want to move to his city to learn the language, he was shocked but then invited me.

I am dating am in love with a married man now I don't know what to do cause he has me in his other place and wont let me go out unless I am with him but he gave me the story cause he is keeping me safe and out of what I want and need to do but he said a lot and did a lot to get me now I do more for him than he does for me and I am always alone and before he was always want to go places with me and have fun with me and I know he tells her lies and now he is lying to me too how do I get out before I get hurt more.

You only said one side of the story - did you have an affair with her? You know Are you also playing game with her - believe me - Karma. What if she kill herself because of you? You think you are not guilty in this game of two? So don't be cruel to people play with their emotions. You laughed at her because she is in love with you and you are in a healthy state after all this?

If you are looking for married man for dating then you have many online dating website where you can find married partner for dating.

You have findchix. I hope everyone here is getting STD tested on a regular basis because if a married man will go behind his spouse's back for sex another woman mistress, affair partner, wacko on the prowl And yes, I was the wife who had to go through the humiliation and TERROR of STD testing and he did too when his affair came out because of course and most do they threw caution to the wind and didn't use protection.

I hope the women posting here as the "eager and willing affair partners" could experience the pain even for one day of being the betrayed spouse and see the look on their devastated children's faces when they realize that dadd is lying and manipulating and willingly destroying their family for his own pathetic and selfish purposes.

Why don't these men just leave their wives? Because they are having their cake and eating it too Or reveal the affair themselves. Anyone, with any IT experience, can find it. Men rarely leave their wives for affair partners because most are pussies and can't be the agents of change or truth.

They'd rather lie, manipulate and gas light their wives and probably their affair partners too than be true men and speak their truth: they want out of a marriage or an affair relationship or both.

They sometimes think they are doing less damage than if they asked for a divorce So ladies ask yourselves And don't think one word you are hearing about his wife is true Don't get me started? I hope you are laughing cause that IS marriage! Oh and don't forget the sexy bills, taking kids to doctor or ER in middle of night for emergency or dealing with aging parents.

Honestly, grow up ladies. Stop helping to wreck these women's lives and realize these men are using you!!! Faced with the certainty of losing their family life which also helps their income level! Hope this has given you all something to mull about when you are inviting a married man to help betray his wife, children and extended family thru the charade of an affair.

Get yourself a real relationship. Just some thoughts from the other side. And again, just please Hi all i am separated for 3 years now. I loved my husband we have 2 kids, but he left me for a much younger girl.

I have been on and off in relationship with men both married and single,until i met this man. He told me at the onset that he was married. I really didn't have issues with that bcos i loved him. I found out lately that he is cheating on me with other women apart from his wife. I really am mad at him and want to leave but i still really love him.

What should I do? I need advice help me ladies. I have been with this sweet caring loving married man. However I keep making degrees back to him every time I try a new relationship I end up back with him because I honestly love him so much. And he loves me. Never said anything bad about her.

He tells me he loves me and how he marry because at the time he went through awful relationships and needed a life. I need to decide if I should stay and stop running or leave and never look back. How do I prepare for either decisions? He has 2 twins a boy and a girl they are into freshman in high school. His wife knows about me. We see each other a lot and we text every day all day. Do I just give up. We are going away in a few months for the first time together but he has a work meeting too.

You should get out. He may not even be who he says he is. You haven't met him face to face. You haven't been intimate so no loss. Let him go before you find it impossible to.

Trust me. Im 4 years in and cant walk away. Ive been dating a single mom of two for two years. In the begining it was just her and myself then me, her and the girls. OMG they are soo darling. I attend some of her family functions like xmas dinner, birthdays and what not. My marriage has been in termoil way before my affair. We have a son in college and in debt up to our eyeballs. My wife and I sleep in seperate rooms now for almost three years and no we do not have sex we have tried but our bodies will not respond to each other.

I know if I leave home this woman will accept me in her life but I will be so finacially disturbed how can I help her and her children. I know thats not my responsibility but those girls OMG. Shit or get off the pot I guess My husband passed away after 40 years of marriage.

Maybe something was missing but i got involved with my married Chiropractor who has been married for 25 years and has 2 adult children and we began a sexual affair. We met two or three times a month at my house but after 6 months I had decided to end our fake relationship.

He liked having access to me and i was a breath of fresh air in his busy mundane life. He had never cheated before and often expressed guilt.

He really was a good man. Fact: he was not available to me and i was wasting my time on someone who could never be there for me.

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I broke it off, without a word. Blocked his number Cold turkey. He will never value me or appreciate what he had with me so it was time to let go. He violated his ethics and his vows and couldn't justify it. I didn't want to ruin his life either. I'll be fine. From now on I will measure the quality of every man who comes into my life and if any of them are like my late husband i won't let them go.

I care a lot for him as he does me. I care a lot for him. And from the beginning was very honest about his relationship with his spouse who he has gone through a lot with and not in a good way either. Not sure to continue or wait to see what could be. Slightly meaning we live many many miles apart. West coast vs East Coast. The chemistry we have is crazy I know he loves his kids and spouse but he says the pull here is real. Of course intimacy has not happened but he has talked about one day hoping to hold me and hold a face to face deep conversation Help anyone?

He was living with his roommate who has children. He slept on the couch. Funny huh? Well this past weekend I called because he was home with his daughter and she went out. I had lost my house keys, he never answered my calls to help me as he had a key to my home.

His wife was. I talked with her and she started asking questions. I told the truth, now I am the person who ruined his whole life. He never even liked me as so he says. But yet 4 to 5 days a week he came took me to dinner, stayed here in my bed having sex with me. Telling me he was going to leave just not now. I was controlled with who I could talk to, what I can say.

Please if you are in a relationship with a married man get out before he destroys your heart. He was so loving to me. Took care of me. Told me how much I meant to him. But now I meant absolutely nothing to him and this was my fault. Just as stated, yes indeed she told me he was sleeping in her bed and yes they were having sex. All Lies since the first day we met. Please get out and save your heart and soul.

It is so painful to be told all the horrible truths. I thought he was different than others that cheat. But truly he is the worst kind of married man anyone can meet. I love this article so very much. So true that you find yourself rejected and left alone when you put everything in the same basket for a married man.

If your married men are real and have been honest with you from the beginning and treated you as top priority compared to his family.

Made you laughed, the most happiest person in the world and would discussed whenever you face problems. Would you consider to keep the relationship? Not all married men are brutal liars. Men heart are bigger than women for sure. One is for real love and one for family and status. There are commitment and divided responsibilities to ensure how the society look at them.

Sounds weird but that's the facts. Just make sure they are not sleeping together. This topic should also differentiate true and genuine married men Vs those heartless men who uses their loved ones for own desire and selfish motives. Some men have also invested heavily when comes to long term emotions and impact when the time comes I liked some of this until the BS about making a man pay for you or support you.

How dare you demean women and make them think the only thing they deserve is cash. They are not hookers. I met this guy in a foreign country. He asked me out, and I was instantly drawn to him before he even spoke to me.

We had coffee. I asked straight up if he was married or had kids. He said he was separated and had two adult children. When he said separated I thought literally separated like they are no longer together but not yet divorced.

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I had to go back to my country. We kept in touch. I asked him if I could come visit he said sure. I came to visit and we started our relationship. When I come to visit we are living together which I feel terrible about.

For two months? He says ok. The problem is I think he really does love me. I love him. We never fight, and get along great and laugh all the time. To make things even more weird is I had waking visions I was going to meet someone who loved me for about 2. It was ongoing. The entire time until I met him.

But I feel like if he is still going to be with his wife maybe I should date others too. Once in awhile I feel he is being fake but majority of the time I feel he is being sincere. Also he said he had a 7 year telationship with another woman. He never answers those calls in front of me.

I am 26 years old and have been having an affair with my best friends father since i turned I know he won't leave his wife and family, but in the meantime we are having sex every day, talk to each other about what we're doing, what would happen if it got out and of course day to day problems at work. We have been so careful, even while i was living in the house.

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It started as a place to live, but i knew he wanted me since i was 13, the way he would look at me, lick his lips, pat my ass, rub his well endowed baggage. They treated me as their own, yet i have crossed the line, lied and yet it has still been one my happiest pleasures. We don't have time to worry, it is our time and yes it started out as lust, sex, at all hours of the day or night, but it has also turned into love. As hard as it is to take care of his wants and needs, i too have to take care of mine and so I to go out to take care of me, because one day, me is all i'm going to have.

He treats me like a queen, we go away all the time, i have been to places all around this beautiful world because i satisfy him whenever, what ever he wants and i know this is his guilt by taking me away. We have made love on beaches, in the mountains, airplanes, elevators, cars, in the house when i was still living there, in my bedroom, his office, even his work office, nude resorts, chalets, and it goes on and on.

He bought me a 1 carat diamond ring and wedding band and we even came up with a story for people to believe who didn't know us. He pays for a young gentleman to be at my beck and call for functions that include my friends and family, including his daughter, my bff. The past eight years i wouldn't trade at all, but we know it's coming to an end very soon, as i have met someone who is only 4 years older than me, not 18and we are starting to plan our wedding. No, he is not aware of my relationship with big daddy.

All he knows is that this family took me in when mine didn't have time for me and i am treated like one of the kids. Big daddy will walk me down the aisle, my bff will be my maid of honor and life will go on the way i hope it will.

All I know for now is big daddy was my first sexual partner and it has been a great time and I am still his baby girl. I need opinions. Do you think a married man treats his wife similiar or the same? What I am referring to is manipulation, control, emotionally detached. I feel honestly that my boyfriend is mentally abusive. I never intended on feelings being involved but they are. He says they do their own thing. Even one of her friends told me the sane thing without even knowing about us.

We talk about him leaving her as they are talking about a seperation. We talk about a future. He calls and texts daily comes to my job daily. Just confused a little. I met this guy almost 4 years ago! He is 18 years older than me, but he was so charming and nice a total gentleman, he ask me out and first thing I asked if he was married, he said he was divorced, so we went along, going out having drinks, nice dinners for couple of months, then I decided to introduce him to my friends and coworkers on one of my birthday dinners, after that everything was great I met his friends and the wives of the friends, we had a great relationship until on of my coworkers one day told me that her husband has seen me with my boyfriend and he mentioned that he was married!!!

I met a charmer on one of my travel job assignments, he was married as I. I was going through a divorce, but he is still married, i have been dealing with him since to now, i have flown to see him and now we work in the same city, he claim he is separtated, and not sleeping in the same bed, also claims they dont have sex.

However, i offered him to stay with me, when he arrived in TX, and he did, we had sex everyday, well i overheard every conversation, i put camera's with sound all around the house so that i could hear every conversation, because he had told me to much.

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I feel bad listening, however i overheard him talking too her and the things i overheard, was crazy, like fighting, talk back and forth, about why she does not touch him, and why she does not help around the house and take care of the kids, and whay she smokes weed and drink for years. He had cheated on her with several woman for 10 years before he met me, i told him why dont you set her and yourself free, he said ite because of the two kid, want to tell them, but they are to small to understand.

They are allways struggling financial, they dont have sex, she told him onthe phone that he knew she was not sexually active when they got married 16 years ago. So out of all of this he met me, and told me he cant see his life without me in it, and he loves me. Do not say he will not leave his wife and children, i can honestly say he will. I was left with 4 children and he left for my best friend. It was devastating for me and my children, who had known her for 11 yrs. My fault was letting her be my confident.

She knew every thing and used it against me. We still feel the effects of a divorce and there is distance between our children and their father. His girlfriendv is not welcome to any family activites.

So every event is hectic tovsay the least. I've never dated a married man but now I find myself in love with one who seems to love me back. But oh my God did I want to. We were friends for six months before I had a clue he liked me. Then another six months and a few drinks in he spills it. His wife is jealous of me and he's had feelings for me for a long time. I thought we were just good friends who shared drinks, intimate stories, and nothing more. I was fighting some feelings for a few months but I figured crushes are health.

Crushes clue you into what you like about people in general and make it easier to identify future good partners. But over the past few months I've had to practically stop myself from begging for a kiss from him. Before he confessed feelings he confessed his marriage was troubled and she cheated on him three times. I thought "People lie about that sort of thing sometimes" but, no, it was true.

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He drunkenly confessed that to one of his best guy friends. I guess you could call it an emotional affair but we've helped each other emotionally, intellectually, and artistically. I feel like I'm a better person for knowing him and I care about him very deeply as a friend I have thought about just asking him what he thinks about leaving his wife then giving us a chance. I know he thinks about me. But I also have reason to believe he will never leave her despite his feelings for me and the fact that she cheated on him three times.

One of them with his best friend. I can't imagine why he would stay with her. That night, I confessed back that I do have feelings for him but I'm not going to date a married man. Ultimately, if he really wanted to change his life he would have already divorced her, taken time to himself, and then swooped me up. Fantasy thinking perhaps. Which is why I haven't made a move. But I couldn't stand to lose his friendship. I dream about what it would be like to have him in my bed.

In my mind he's already kissed every inch of my body. SO I must contact him as little as possible. I haven't seen him in about two weeks and I miss him every day. I am for middle East far away from your world but I want share my experience as well I get divorced 2 times with out any baby and after that I could not live in peace our society is very small and closed every body talking about me why she got divorce towice time some thing Is wrong with her.

No family accept their son married with one lady who got divorced 2 times I have mastered degree but I could not find any job and my family dont wanted me more so what I did the most stupid thing I could do. I join to one dating website and find middle East man who is married with 3 kids I told him my life and he ask me go to country he lived there I make story for my family I am going for get my PhD I put my self in deep messy I went we were together after 6 months he told me sorry I must back to the EU he has EU passport he is citizen there and for me with my passport I could not go he take his wife and family and leave me I back to my country with Brocken heart I just wish to die I just wanted to run away and now look at me.

I got one don't marry a married man or a woman don't ruin somebody's home there's plenty of people out there Jezebel!!! I met a guy 3 months ago.

For no real reason i hardly ever give out my number but I did this time. He had already texted me within the hour. We txted two days until i told him it was okay to call.

We have talked every single day multiple times for last 3 months. Make a long story short i found out my own way he is married. I wasnt in love or anything but had just taken a strong liking to him. I said it was over ignored all calls and texts for a day called him next day n have been with him every since. I am currently happily married.

A couple of years ago, before my husband and I were married, we went through a difficult time in college and I chose to fill the hole created by his being busy with grad school all the time with another man, who was thankfully, in a way, single.

He and I never slept together, but got dangerously close. After a couple months of sneaking around she's right, the secrecy of it all is elating I broke it off with him. My now-husband knows everything- I told him almost the whole story a couple months before we got engaged, and added all of the details before we were married. It is so hard to admit the details because you can see each word you say is hurting the person you love most. I am glad my husband knows everything that happened, because I know that he still loved me enough to forgive me and marry me.

Above all, I am so glad I never got far enough to sleep with that other man. At least it happened before we were married, so I have learned my lesson damn early and will never do anything to jeopardize our marriage.

Take advice from a girl who knows, you'll end up feeling like crap; save yourself the trouble. I don't know how I feel about this, but I appreciate you doing this interview and Michelle's honesty. I can relate to the feeling of wanting to be with someone just because they're paying attention to you and being nice at a time you need it, though the idea that someone could KNOW someone is "off limits" and allow themselves to cross that line isn't something I have an easy time "getting," you know?

On the other hand, I really feel for Michelle knowing that this man, judging from his marital status and other affairs, used her. It's a terrible thing to do to another human being. I think one of the big lessons here for anyone thinking of being the "other man" or "other woman" is that if a person is willing to cheat on their S.

I've always believed this, even though it's one of those things people won't believe is true in the moment. Boy, can I relate to the stories in here. I've been all sides of this situation as well.

It all felt like a bad movie, really with the same three characters at the center of the storm and a small supporting cast. It's not something I'm proud of, but I cannot change the past, so I choose to learn from it.

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I have been honest with the necessary parties about what happened, and they have been straight with me, so thankfully trust has been restored for some time. I am marrying the love of my life in two months, and I never want to be with anyone else. This made me think of the same situation that happened to me. I was seeing a guy and the whole time something seemed very off.

Turned out he was dating another girl and some of my friends even knew. So that made me feel really really good. I had the opportunity, sort of. About 8 years ago I met a man.

We exchanged information and one day we set up a lunch date. He ultimately decided to go home. He did contact me last summer, out of the blue, divorced now. We met for drinks and I brought a friend along but nothing bloomed. Doesn't anyone think The Other woman or man has some kind of obligation to let the cheated-on spouse know, at least after the affair ends?

Personally, I think if you get with a married man - that's your choice. I wouldn't judge it. But if after the affair ends, you allow the wife to continue a false marriage on in naivete, then that's the one of worst things you can do. It kinda makes me sad no one has brought it up. I mean, sure it's not really the other woman's problembut it kinda is a problem she helped create. That is not a bright idea. The best thing you can do is shut up and move on. That woman has a cheating husband and most of the time You are Not the only one he is cheating with.

Why be the skank that breaks the news. A lot of times homewreckers break the news in a desperate attempt to ruin the marriage or the relationship, they do it for revenge because the married man chooses the wife and not them.

So be quiet and move on is the most ethical behavior. When I was living overseas I ended up living with a man from another country entirely who eventually proposed to me.

When I was seven months pregnant with his baby he disappeared, and it was only several months after going back to my country and having the baby that I found out through friends that he had a wife and three kids back in his own country.

I didn't even know he was married when I was with him, but the consequences have certainly showed how something that seems fun can have huge consequences on other people's lives - I've got a little boy who'll never know his father or three half-siblings, and I can only imagine what it's like for him knowing he has twice now abandoned women with his children even if he did go back to his wife and three kids, he DID abandon them when he was living with me.

Thank you for posting this story. Affairs are not always black and white and I think that this story captures that perfectly. As with others, it hits close to home for me as well. But in my case, both my husband and I went outside our vows.

For us, it ended up saving our marriage and reminded us both why we wanted to be together. But the emotional roller coaster that was involved in the process was so not worth it and draining. Wow, this is an amazing story. I've never been involved with anyone who's married, but I've seen how hurtful it could be.

My dad cheated on my mom when I was born, of course I don't remember that but I've heard a lot of stories that have really left me in shock.

I've also seen the other side. Last year my cousin who's almost like my sister got involved with a married man and, although I didn't agree with it, at one point I found myself defending him instead of telling her to end it.

In the end I saw how much he was hurting her and tried to convince her to leave him, but she wouldn't. It wasn't until he changed his number and only called her private that she stopped seeing him. Although it seems so obvious to stay away from these situations, sometimes you just can't help it and I totally understand Michelle, even if I don't agree with what she did.

I've been working out my own reasonings for entering into a similar relationship a year ago. Although my friends are supporting, none of them really "get it" and I can't help but feel their silent judgment at times.

I'd like to thank everyone for sharing their stories and making me feel less like the spawn of satan and more like a normal, albeit confused, person who got involved in a very messy, very effed up situation. Dear all I am finding myself in this situation right now. I fell in love with a married man who was in a very bad relationship and decided to divorce 2 years ago.

We have been together for 1yr and 4 months. I loved him so much! I still do and recently I asked him for a break When will he serve her with papers for divorce if she is such a witch!! He has 4 kids, and also is 20 yers older than I am. Wow what a wonderful man, I love him so much, caring, loving, he says that he finally found the ture love he always wanted to have.

Someone to love him like I was his dream from the begining. That he never was able to love the way he wanted and neve felt love until I came along we had a beautiful affair beautiful but i was so lost in him that I fogot me I don't knwo why but I asked for a break, not a break up to date others, some time to think about everything well, it did not go well! He said how could I?

Girls we were talking marriage! I asked for a break and what he told me was that I will never get over him that he does not do breaks either i am in our out! The man who said he will marry me? I am his eternal love? Did not even fight for me? He had it good, me 28, no kids, accepting everything, him still living with the witch?

He just let me go because he did it for me I read all your stories and its helping me cope with everything, but I am blaming it now on me. That I asked for a break. I want him to fight for me for once. I want him to show me his love that he has for me I see nothingCan anyone comment if I should contact him and ask to talk or just let it go?

You gave him an out. Believe me. You did him a favor. He now was able to end it but making you feel like its your fault. He will not leave his wife. He will have no problem starting the affair again but will not leave his wife.

Maybe he was really hurt that after everything you wanted a break when he needed you and felt betrayed. Ever think about that? Thanks so much for posting this interview. It happened to me last summer. It was a crazy experience one can get so easily swept up in and can take months and months to get over, even after it has all ended. I finally deleted all traces of him from my email, phone, and any means of communication.

It is so freeing. I am happy to learn others have been able to deal with all the questions and emotions these relationships pose. I can easily say I can relate to this story very well. Im dating a guy who is a local police officer in my neighborhood, who is married and has one daughter. Before we started dating, we had a conversation in the past about if we dated, and if it would bother me that he is married.

I honestly only saw him as a friend, so at that time I said no it was ok. Also, the fact that he is 16 years older than I am, at first I felt a little weird of the fact of dating someone much older than I am Im 31and he's Well before we started dating he was completely honest about his marriage. He told me if it was not a problem with me we could date.

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I had just broken up with my ex, so I kind of felt like I needed someone to be there for me so I would not feel so lonely. I agree to date him, but its been only two months and Im already feeling like I dont mean anything to him. I get jealous of the fact that his wife is first, and obviously I know I cant say anything if I totally agree to this, but it just bothers me.

I feel like I have to wait for his calls all the time. He only sees me when he has off duty time. Ive been to his house twice, and I felt hurt knowing that Im in someone else's house which i dont belong in.

It bothers me that I might be the reason to a broken marriage and hurt his family. At the same time Im thinking about my happiness with him. I dont want to say I love him but Im afraid that will happen. I even brough up that subject to him.

We had a few issues due to some problems im having with my ex and some other friends that I have who he does not like. That is always a problem in our relationship. I feel confused and alone at time. I wonder if he does like me. He tells me that his wife and him are hardly intimate, and that all he is doing is waiting for his daughter to go to college so they can get divorce.

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I dont believe it, but I really dont know what to do. I dont speak about him to any of my friends. They dont know anything about the fact that he is a married man. Only that he is my partner. My family also knows about him ,but they also dont know that he is married. I feel so confused and alone. He will not leave his wife even if his kid goes off to college.

You will be wasting your youth and time for nothing. You need to end it now because it will only get harder for you to end it later. Yoy think you have feelings now? It will only grow more as you continue this relationship. Save yourself the heartache now. I am the married man in this whole scenario described by the original poster, except I did not disclose that I was married. What started out as a flirtatious conversation ended up in a serious relationship! Not getting enough physical attention compounded the issue.

Finally after a almost a year I was unable to continue this dual life and I broke up. My wife and I went through a bad year, numerous counseling and our relationship got better. We survived this for six years and my wife died suddenly in a automobile accident two years ago. I was a wreck.

About two months ago I started dating again I am 47 Years old and I met a real nice person. I told her my whole story and even about the other woman who is a real nice person also and how I had jeopardized my marriage in the past. Maggie made the call and they met at a coffee shop and talked for a couple of hours.

Maggie and I are still seeing each other it had been two months but I do sense that Maggie is cautious. I am not sure where our relationship will end up, but I have tried to atone and make a fresh start. Im going through a similar situation and i really appreciate this article. I am a married woman, and had a 2year affair with a married man. He's actually a co-worker and used to be my boss. I wanted a divorce but am very religious, and have 2 young children so divorce always seemed just out of reach.

My husband has gone through therapy and is doing everything he can to win me back but all i can think about is how badly i want to be with the "other man". Eventually i broke it off because i dont trust him, i feel like he is cheating on ME with everyone. Every attractive girl at work makes me sick to my stomach because all i can think about is him trying to get down her pants.

It has been 3 days since the break up and even though im the one who did it i feel horrible. I want him back, idk why he doesnt try to get me back. I know he obviously never loved me but he faked it so well. He told me he doesnt love his wife. That she changed after they were married. So why didnt he leave her? I know iknow, im pathetic but i have to vent somewhere and i am beside myself. I cant even get out of bed and im sick to my stomach.

My husband is so worried about me, im just telling him i think im sick but idk how ill ever be happy again. I know what i did was wrong. I know the "om" doesnt love me for real but it still doesnt help. I feel wothless, ugly, horrible, guilty, SAD. Idk how im going to stomach seeing him everyday at work. Im such a fool. I wonder if he even feels bad. He sounds like a serial cheater. You are giving too much of your heart, mind and soul to a man that doesn't deserve it.

Your children need you and I know you have been neglecting them and not giving them the attention they deserve. Your whole waking moment is thinking about him and wondering how he feels about you.

He will never leave his wife for you no matter what he tells you. Always remember that and stay strong. You are a strong and good woman, prove it to yourself and family. I think unless you have gone through this yourself, you won't really understand how complex it is.

I've been on both sides of this situation.

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My mother fell in love with another man and she had his child and despite all of that, my father stayed with her. I don't know if this was the right thing to do.

I didn't even find out about this until 10 years ago. The thing is, that every relationship is different and depending on your situation, you may end up being the "other" woman. I have fallen for a married man and trust me, I know my feelings are pretty strong and I've respectfully kept my distance and kept these feelings to myself. I guess since I've seen the other coin of this I know what could possibly happen which is why I have held back. On his part, I had a feeling he felt the same but I've pretty much given him the cold shoulder.

It's extremely hard to cut off those feelings you have though and at this rate, I am looking for another job. I need distance from this man because regardless of what my brain is telling me, my feelings have not gone away. I pray in time I will be able to look back at it and just think it a memory. But I do empathize with any women who have gone through this. Please stay strong.

I have been in the same situation. At first I was a bit hesitant but I went with the flow and began living him. Unlike most he never promised to leave his wife for me. We dated for four months but I never slept with because of the guilt. Finally he decided to end things saying am the problem, I was really hurt but moved on. Word of advice is stay away from this relationship they never go anywhere he will never leave his wife and kids for you.

He is a man of his word and the solution of all kind of problems, i call him the physical God on earth because of what he has done for me with his powerful spell. I was married for seventeen years without any child but when i contacted Doctor Atete for help,he promised me that all will be well with me and my wife then he cast a spell for me and i am so please to tell the world that my wife got pregnant after sex and today she gave birth to triplet.

What else can i say than to say thank you to Doctor Atete the man that has wipe my tears. Do you need help then Contact Doctor Atete today via mail: doctoratetespelltemple hotmail. I am in love with a married man. I never condoned being the other woman for all the reasons stated in prior posts. I am a very attractive 49 year old woman who is divorced with grown children. I think life throws you choices and situations sometimes and you just have to decide. It is different for everyone.

In my situation, I have known this man since middle school. We always had a secret crush on each other. We would run into each other at school reunion functions over the years and I was always left with the sense of feeling that he was the one that got away. He felt the same. I was always happy for him that he was and remained a good man, married with children, a good friend and son.

One day he reached out to me on social media and we began talking. He offered to meet me in the city several times for lunch but i always declined. I knew he was unhappy in his marriage but i just did not want to get involved for fear of the door that we would be opening. After a lot of thought, I agreed to meet. I felt at this age, life is half over at best and I needed to know what was between us since life is very short. Neither of us want to hurt anyone.

It has been the most beautiful and respectful love I have ever known. I know one day, I may walk away to avoid pain for all of us. I am prepared if he says to me, he must end it. I have no answers and I have no regrets. If it ends tomorrow, I know I loved the man I was truly made to love. I wouldn't have missed this dance for anything. If by chance he leaves his wife, I will be the happiest woman in the world, yet I love him enough to walk away if I feel that is what should be done.

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He was separated before. I feel the joy of the love we share is worth the pain of leaving him if he finds he must stay in his marriage. I won't let it drag out for years but I am willing to let this unfold. Your story, your honesty touches me. I have been involved with a married man for almost an entire year.

I was suffocating and unhappy in a marriage that has lasted for almost 15 years. This gentleman came along, unexpected. He has given me the best of everythingthat he can give. I have given him my best. The issue is that because of his culture, there is no way in hell that he would leave his wife of 25 years. He has made this clear. And I, educated, professional, mother, all that good stuffand married myself has allowed the moment to take place.

He is like petals on my lips and I will miss him when we finally end this. I cry in advance, but my tearsare worth it. Your story is a similar one to mine.

Sep 14,   Dating a married man will ruin your self esteem as a woman, and I will block and good future relationships you might get a change of having. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life to leave him because I loved him so much, but he will never leave her . Dating a married man isn't a myth anymore. So, if it exists and everyone knows, it isn't a bad thing to talk about the benefits of dating a married man. Although, it has some dark cts too! No doubt, it sounds bad and a bit selfish but, modern society is cluttered with such relationships. Despite [ ]. Dec 22,   Loving and dating a married man can be extremely painful and seldom works out well in the long run. The ups can leave you over the moon with a great feeling of love and comfort and the downs can be all consuming, leaving one bitter and rejected. But this article is not intended to judge anyone or admonish women to "just dump him!"Reviews:

We started this nearly 30 years ago but me in my youth allowed another older manipulating man convince me to leave him. After nearly 30 years of cruelty and violence in this marriage I find myself a widow and this beautiful albeit taken man standing once again before me.

The feelings are the same as the first time we met as young adults. I have choices also to make. I to thought long about whether to move forward with this and decided that it was as you so nicely put it a dance I wanted to have. I too know he may end it one day, maybe I will, He too has been through seperation before and knows the complexities of it all. Living in the moment is bitter sweet but no one knows what fate has instore, this journey began 30 years ago and only time will tell.

I am involved with a married man. We have been having our affair for 10 months. I had fallen for this man. They had only been married 3 weeks. We have been through so much in the last 10 months. We spend Monday to Saturday together every week. We leave each other at the evening time. We have lost a baby together. We cry as we want to be together. He is my best friend.

Jun 25,   You're dating an amazing new man. Trouble is this amazing new man already has a woman at home. That's right; you're dating a married susanneill.com couple of days I get an email from another woman telling me they're dating a married man, or a man who has a long-term girlfriend, but it's OK because, "He's going to leave her.". Listen To This Story! By Jackie Pilossoph, Editor-in-chief, Divorced Girl Smiling, Love Essentially columnist and author I'm a single woman dating a married man who strung me along for months, told me he was getting a divorce and but backed out when I forced . Jul 12,   True Story: I Dated a Married Man. 12 July relationships, true story. Wow! I can easily say I can relate to this story very well. Im dating a guy who is a local police officer in my neighborhood, who is married and has one daughter. Before we started dating, we had a conversation in the past about if we dated, and if it would bother me.

I feel list and empty when we are apart. I have never asked him to leave his wife as they have 2 children together.

My little boy as met him loads of times and they get on really well. No one knows we are having an affair. It might end bad because these type of situations never have a happy ending so embrace yourself for the worse. Not trying to be negative but I was in the same situation and felt like the guy was my friend since we chatted everyday and everything in our lives. I never thought he would just leave me and go back to his wife. And the wife emailed me to leave her husband alone or else she would press charges against me.

Nothing good comes out of situations like these. I had an experience of being involved with a married man and it had lasted almost two years. He kept begging for me to stay with him. And then one day his wife took his phone while he was asleep and read an email between me and him about having sex and she went crazy on me. She went to the job and told HR on us and then she emailed me for two days straight and kept trying to meet up with me to fight but I refused.

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And then she forwarded all the emails between us to HR to make it worse for me and embarrass the hell out of me. And that he never liked me or wanted me. So the wife involved some of her family members to email me and make threats to me saying for me to leave the guy alone and even when I sent them emails of the married guy telling me he loved me the night before, they still believed his bs lies he was telling them.

I guess anything to save his marriage so he made me look bad and told his wife and family that he only said he loved me and missed me everyday because he was fucking with my mind but never ever liked me, that he just used me for sex.

And he also said that I was nothing but a mistake, when I was the one who tried to break it off so many times and then he tried to flip it and make himself look innocent. So because the damage was already done at my job I ended up quiting before they fired me because HR called me in questioning about the emails the wife forwarded and I was so embarrassed because I knew that the entire hospital would know about it.

So I tried to email him for the last time to tell him how I hate him for ruining my job and life but his wife emailed me back telling me to leave her man alone and not to email him anymore or else she would press charges. I am not proud of what happened but I did learn my lesson, never again will I put myself in this situation with a married man. Its been hard trying to get used to not hearing from him anymore because he used to text me every morning and every night.

And sometimes thru out the day saying he was thinking of me and missing me and how much he loved me. I guess I was the fool to fall for his bullshit lies.

Valuable lesson learned here. My name is also michelle. Im 30 and his It ended bad. I developed an intense feeling towards this guy. He even joke me once that i looked like a teenager because of my petite body. We were always mistaken as father and daughter of people who dont know us. I miss him so mch and im dying to see him. What will i do now?

It indeed is difficult but honestly forget him. He has no respect for you. Its easier said than done but if you brood you will only torture yourself, he is not affected. If you want to teach him a lesson again you will be at the receiving end as he will make excuses and escape.

Ignore him and move on. Life will surely bring better time for all of us. Find an available man. There are plenty of them out there. How would you like to be married and another woman sleeps with your husband? How would you feel? Think about it. Then do unto others as you would want done to you. My wife who I love dearlywe were married for 15 years. The last three of our marriage, apparently she had a full-blown affair with a friend of mine marrie that was also a business associate.

I lost that business contract, I lost my home, I went homeless, I was a mess, depression and rock bottom, embarrassing to say, I even tried to take my own life. When It got to a point where we fought never physicallyso much, we argue so much, and because I had no proof whatsoever, I felt that it was all my fault. Well several years later I come to find out she was cheating on me after all, and to know that it was with my friend same married manthat was part of this business contract, well, now I know why I lost the contract.

Just to get straight to the point of this ending story. Honestly I tend to stay like this singlebecause I have trust issues with women, and I know everybody says, that all women are not the same, but right now, I choose this kind of life.

It is a difficult situation for me as I am alone and deep down inside also looking for someone who will love and care. Its not easy to find a match. So when a married person approached me with lots of affection, love and promise of a life long friendship its very alluring. However, I have a strong sense of guilt for his wife. Mostly he would describe how pathetic his marriage became, how unhappy he was and how desperately he wanted a soulmate.

I like him a lot but also very hesitant to take any step forward. I do not know if I am missing a good opportunity of a nice future or really taking a wise decision by avoiding such invitation. I shouldnt have allowed myself to get as involved as I did, but was caught up in his affection for me and I wanted to feel loved. Then he takes it back, then he tells me he loves me again, and now he just wants to be friends.

Anyway, my question for all of you is this One day, I hope to meet the true man of my dreams, get married, and raise a family. Do I confess everything about this part of my past? Or do I keep it secret so as not to jeopardize my chance at a happily ever after?

I know that it is crazy selfish of me to think that I still deserve happiness, especially because of what we did, but I hope that if there truly is a God, that He will forgive me. I just feel like whenever Mr. I could never go through something like this again. I found myself involved with a married man.

It just happens, and the deeper you fall into the situation, the harder it is to free yourself from it. The guilt of it would crush me. It would get so strong sometimes and I would consider ending my life, telling myself that no one deserves to live after committing such a terrible act.

I had all these plans about he and I. It was all black and white in my view. You had a choice. Simple as that. Until I was caught in the throes of passion with this man. The attraction was so potent.

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At first, I actively fought against it. I told him that I really liked his wife Yes, I know her. Feelings won me over. Passion is not to be underestimated. No matter how tempting it is to chip in something when he comes complaining to you about her, never ever fall into the temptation of badmouthing her.

So please, go out with your friends, travel alone, have fun, meet other people. What about the woman who prefers dating married men. All the perks, gifts, sex, travel and none of the daily drama. Rule 2 nothing good comes of it. If confused, refer to rule 1!! This is trash. To whomever wrote this, you should be ashamed of yourself.

Dating a married man? My father had an affair with a coworker of his who probably believed in the garbage written in this article. Putting this type of bullshit lightly like this and writing about tips on how to successfully date a married man is revolting. I have first hand experienced the tragedy of an affair and reading this shit makes me furious.

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